Are We Dating All Wrong?
Modern dating feels like a never-ending cycle of swipes, texts, and unanswered messages. We ghost, get ghosted, and chase the ever-elusive “perfect match.”
The result? More confusion. More heartbreak. Less connection.
Despite all the dating apps and so-called relationship “hacks,” divorce rates remain high, and meaningful relationships seem harder than ever to find.
But what if love was never meant to be this complicated?
What if the secret to lasting relationships wasn’t in the latest dating trend—but in ancient spiritual wisdom?
Can Kabbalah Unlock the Secret to Love?
In The Spiritual Rules of Engagement: How Kabbalah Can Help Your Soul Mate Find You, Yehuda Berg explores timeless principles that could radically shift how we approach relationships.
Kabbalah—an ancient mystical Jewish tradition—teaches that love isn’t just about chance encounters or “right timing.” Instead, relationships are governed by spiritual laws determining who we attract and how those connections unfold.
And no, you don’t have to be religious (or even spiritual) to benefit from these teachings. If you’ve ever wondered why you keep attracting the wrong people—or why modern dating feels like a mess—this book offers a fresh, thought-provoking perspective.
The 7 Spiritual Rules of Love (That Make More Sense Than Tinder)
Berg presents seven core Kabbalistic principles that can help you align with a deeper, more meaningful kind of love. Let’s break them down:
1. Your Energy Shapes Your Relationships
According to Kabbalah, men and women bring different energies to relationships. Men channel energy (Light), while women are the vessels that hold and nurture it.
👉 This isn’t about outdated gender roles—it’s about understanding the power of feminine and masculine energy in creating balance. When you embrace your unique energy, relationships flow more naturally.
2. Fulfillment Comes From Within
You don’t need anyone to “complete” you (sorry, Jerry Maguire). Kabbalah teaches that true love starts with being whole on your own. When you’re fulfilled from within, you naturally attract healthy, aligned relationships.
3. Protect Your Light
Ever felt emotionally drained by the wrong person? That’s because energy is everything. Berg warns against settling for relationships that diminish your light. Instead, be mindful of who you allow into your life.
4. Actions Over Words
Sweet talk is cheap. Love bombing? Even cheaper. Kabbalah reminds us: A man’s words don’t define him—his actions do.
👉 Instead of overanalyzing texts, pay attention to how he consistently shows up for you. That’s where the truth is.
5. Accept Him as He Is—Or Walk Away
Dating potential is a dangerous game. If someone isn’t aligned with your values now, they won’t magically change later. Kabbalah teaches radical acceptance: either love them as they are or move on.
6. You Attract What You Need to Learn
Patterns repeat until we break them. If you keep attracting emotionally unavailable or toxic partners, Kabbalah suggests it’s time to look inward. What lesson are you resisting?
7. Fear of Rejection? That’s a You Problem
Rejection stings when we don’t know our worth. The more you embrace your value, the more aligned partners will be drawn to you. Rejection isn’t a loss—it’s redirection.
📖 Grab your copy here and start your journey toward a fulfilling love life.
What Are Readers Saying?
This book has sparked strong reactions—both powerful revelations and a few eye rolls. Here’s a breakdown of real reviews:
✅ “A must-read for spiritual women.”
Sylvie Précourt calls it the reference book on love, praising its deep yet accessible approach.
✅ “It makes you take responsibility for your love life.”
Wendy Douglas appreciates that it shifts the focus from waiting for fate to actively shaping your relationships.
❌ “Snooze. Gave it to Goodwill.”
Gladdess didn’t connect with the writing style or concepts. Not every book is for everyone!
Is This Just Another Relationship Book?
Not even close. Unlike mainstream dating advice that focuses on games and strategies, this book is about aligning with love on a soul level.
Whether you’re single, dating, or in a long-term relationship, these principles encourage self-awareness, energy alignment, and attracting relationships that truly nourish you.
Final Thoughts: Can Ancient Wisdom Solve Modern Love?
Modern dating tells us to chase, swipe, and strategize. But what if the real key to love has been around for centuries?
The Spiritual Rules of Engagement challenges us to rethink relationships from an energetic and spiritual perspective.
If you’re tired of modern dating struggles and ready to explore a deeper, more meaningful approach to love, Kabbalah offers a refreshing perspective. The Spiritual Rules of Engagement dives into the energy alignment in relationships, conscious dating, and the power of self-worth in attracting true love. By understanding ancient wisdom, you can manifest love in a way that feels natural, fulfilling, and aligned with your soul’s journey. Whether you’re looking for soulmate connections or just seeking personal growth in dating, embracing these principles can transform how you experience love.
Are you open to exploring it?
📖 Grab your copy here and start your journey toward a fulfilling love life.